Just some of the shit transgender types say to post ops transsexuals.
Feel free to add additional things you may have heard from your own experience in the comment section.
“…don’t need surgery to be female.”
“…just as female as any other female.”
“…it’s between the ears not between the legs.”
“…just an after market vagina.”
“…when archeologist dig you up a thousand years from now…”
“…but, I’d have to dilate.”
“…you’re privileged.”
“…they like my six inch neoclit.”
“…just sooooooo elitist.”
“…more trannier than thou.”
“…we’re all queer.”
“…can’t because I have a medical issue.”
“…have to live under constant fear of attack.”
“…you’re just self-loathing.”
“…if you didn’t have so much internalized…”
“…have so much in common.”
“…that’s just plain transphobic.”
“…did you hear what that cis female said.”
“…are you going to Southern Comfort?”
“…why should my genitals even matter?”
“…you are homophobic.”
“…will I see you at the support group tonight.?
“…I can’t wait for Pride Day.”
“…think you’re better than I am.”
“…is another thing separatists do.”
“…so where do you go to the bathroom?”
“…it was ball faced discrimination.”
“…you’re a sister, that’s why.”
“…I had my orchi.”
“…I identify as lesbian.”
“…that damn DSM.”
“…I don’t have a disorder.”
“…did you sign the petition?”
“…Thomas Beatty is a man.”
“…don’t you call me a tranny.”
“…that word is a perjorative.”
“…don’t they ever read the media Style Guide.”
“…it started with a bee sting.”
“…oh, I’m a trans women.”
“…I love hir…ze too.”
“…we don’t allow transphobic comments here.”
“…I was mam’ed today.”
“…have you been to the Rose Room?”
“…on the gender spectrum.”
“…transgender, but I’m really transsexual.”
“…you’ll never be a real woman.
“…so what, no one ever sees my genitals anyhow.”
“…normative…”
“…did I tell you I’m a feminist?”
“…take that tripe somewhere else.”
“…and I thought you would understand.”
“…then I became the real me.”
“…my wife completely understands.”
“…I went en femme.”
“…vote for her, she’s trans.”
“…I’m not sure our gay brothers and sisters…”
“…I don’t define myself that way.”
“…the troll shows its ugly face.”
“…I’m non op.”
“…I should have that right.”
“…’facepalm’…”
“…well, Julia Serano says…”
“…I feel I need to give something back.”
“…what’s so magical about a penis that makes it define sex?”
Of course there are many, many more…but my all time favorite:
“… you are transgender whether you like it or not.”
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This is nothing but a hate post, get off your soap box and stop preaching messages of hate!
Ahhh…another item for the list.
you’re just somewhere else on the TG spectrum
“White women born transsexual drink the hateraid”
“You still have XY chromosomes.”
Chromosomes have nothing to do with it. Can anyone “read” someone’s chromosomes on sight or thru any means other than expensive testing? If genes are so determining of sex than why bother with the surgery when it will just grow back anyway? The genetic sex argument is the last refuge of the incompetant.
Which is exactly why I added it to “Shit the Transgender Say to Post-op Transsexuals.”
I always loved the chromosome comment. It presumes they know my genetic make-up and further illustrates that they failed to grasp that there were so many more combinations of markers than XX and XY.
‘chelle, it gets worse. Sex is not chromosomal. At minimum, it is genomic. A gene is a package of heritability data used as information in the construction of an organism. To say that a specific gene fixes sex is like saying an object (say a chair) is a house because it uses a nail. The irony here is that the people who say such things claim a grasp of information when they are the least informed of all.
“Men are dangerous and unpredictable.”
“…the haters see us as all the same.”
“Oh, I’m JUST a transvestite”………..and then in the next breath………….”youre so elitist”
“So do you like men or women?”
It is not the statements that you make above that surprise me – just that you are making them, here, like this. In every area of humanity, the social weakness is always dividing those that are ‘committed’ (or have, or ‘are’) and those that are not committed (or do not have). Of course, the power of this opinion is always in the position with those committed.
You are standing on the same soap box that separates a doctorate from a BA, the business owner from the skilled employee, the mountaineer from the weekend hiker, the female from the post-op TS, the post-op from the others on the path… the full-time committed, suffering artist who scowls at the younger part time painter who tells him he works at a bar. That soap box is so easy to stand on when a person feels ‘they have made it’ (or are certainly ‘more committed’) and that alone puts them above others – just go to any high school reunion.
That soap box is simply that you are the “real deal” – the committed individual who made it all the way when compared to those who are not where you are (for whatever are their own reasons).
The injustice here is your attitude. Have you really been fighting the battle against “acceptance from others” for so long that you turn to attack those following you with your own brand of intolerance? Of all people, with all your experience (which includes your own suffering and being subjected to intolerance), you should hold yourself to a higher standard now.
And, yet, one doesn’t see a BS/BA claim to have the same education as a Ph.D…or an employee claim to be the employer…a weekend hiker put himself on the same level as a technical climber…and so on. “Social weakness” is just more trans speak. That same trans speak that can be seen in the “soap box”…”real deal”…”attitude” connects I see in your comment. The whole “acceptance of others”…what you perceive as my own “suffering and being subjected to intolerance” etc is just baiting. Your comment is just more of the same crazy and repetitive crap we hear day in and day out from the transgender…like an outdated 45 RPM record of old that is scratched, flawed, yet continues to skip along trying to eek out a sound. Your entire comment is a perfect example of the kind of shit the transgender say to post ops and, frankly, the only reason I allowed your comment to stand.
Well said!
How about: “I am 100% woman, 10% of the time”
LOL…though I’ve never actually heard anyone admit to that, your comment does bring up a good point. A while back I posted on three different FtoM. One of them has nail polish on…dark read or black nail polish. Now why in the world would a FtoM want to wear dark colored nail polish? I submit that an actual FtoM transsexual wouldn’t be caught dead in dark nail polish. My point only being that I think many of the transgender probably, at most, only dabbles in it…probably few are full time.
Sarah, you may not have intended so, but what you did was essentially restate the transgender attitude that is reflected in so many of the statements above. I cannot ever recall a legitimate transsexual writer claiming that being post-op is superior or better than being pre-op. The anology of PHD vs BA is just silly, it makes no sense at all. This concern about superiority or social position – so to say – is something exclusive to transgender men and the way they think. Everything is a contest and the ulitmate prize in their world is “the” surgery. I wonder if this is because, for a man, it seems like a sacrifice to loose what they hold so important. I dont think many transsexuals view having their genitals corrected as much of a sacrifice. Most transsexuals do not get GRS/SRS, not ever, nor do they realistically have any chance of it. Prior to 50 or so years ago it wasnt even available and even today the prognosis for FTM transsexuals is not great. Yet transsexuals are a naturally occouring thing, we have been around for many thousands of years.
What has changed is the way in which men identify themselves. Those who were cross dressers or transvestites are now transgender and often even transsexual. They arent the same thing though and you really have to wonder how confusing the two is beneficial.
Amber, they make up a lot of things and pass them off as facts. They also claim we don’t care about their safety or actually want to cause them harm.
And you are correct.
“Those who were cross dressers or transvestites are now transgender ”
Unfortunately, there is a stigma to “dressing”. So today they hide behind the skirts of women born transsexual and try to claim a different “identity”. And us women who resent that are horrible, mean and nasty people. How dare we stand up for our own selves!
Nicely stated, Amber.
I do believe the comments on the list “Shit (what a little potty mouth!) transgenders say about post-op transsexuals” are the literal definition of “out of context”. Also, I’m a little hurt that my out of context comments are not on the list